Men are very visual. Don't believe me? It's true, come on.. you know it's true!
Please don't think I'm saying to look like something you're not.
I'm not saying I don't struggle with this. I have found myself "letting myself go".
But it's time to lasso ourselves back in and make an effort!
Come on girls who's with me?!
Let's expand:
When we were all newly dating (before we lived together), we would always makes sure we were clean and lovely looking before he saw us, right?
I know we have changed over the years. Our bodies and our schedules. But why should we not feel good about ourselves? Why not let your husband know YOU STILL GOT IT GIRL! Stop beating yourselves up. We don't need to look like magazine covers to be beautiful, just care about yourselves and have some confidence. My theory is that guys care more about the way a women keeps herself and her confidence than her size/any flaws you think you have! Go ahead get dolled up and wear his favorite outfit. Throw in a little jewelry and a bit of properly applied makeup goes a long way. You don't need to look fake, just show him that you care about the way you look.. and smell. They like smells too!
I know some of us have kids.. but hey they are settled down sometimes (right?... um yeah I think that's right!) It may not be as easy as it sound but it's not as hard as we make it out to be either. You have time to look and feel good. And when you look and feel good... HE NOTICES!
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